What are some signs that a romance scam could be taking place?

• a new love living far away requests money or use of your credit card number
• being asked to sign a document giving a new romantic interest control of your finances
• a new sweetheart wants you to open a joint bank account with them

While romance scammers usually focus on single, older people, anyone seeking a new relationship is a possible target. These scams can happen in person, but more often through social media, dating websites, smartphone apps. These scams happen when a new love pretends to be interested in you as a way to get your money. In fact, they may not even be who they say they are.

Beware of Cupid’s arrow striking your wallet instead of your heart!  To protect you, friends, and family from romance and other scams, consider these actions:

• Avoid giving a new friend access to credit cards, bank accounts, or other financial assets.
• Report crimes or financial exploitation to local law enforcement agencies or to Adult Protective Services (APS); information available at gov.
• Contact your state attorney general and the Federal Trade Commission to report cases of financial abuse.

For additional information on romance scams, click here.

Teaching Suggestions

• Have students create and present possible scam situations to create awareness among various potential victims.
• Have students create a visual presentation (using computer software or a poster) to communicate actions to avoid scams.

Discussion Questions 

1. What are common warning signs that may indicate that a possible scam is taking place?
2. Describe actions that might be taken to avoid various scams and frauds.