Newly Married with $52,000 of Debt

My Wife and I Never Discussed Money Before Getting Married–and Ended Up with $52,000 of Debt

Prior to tallying up our debt, we’d talked about traveling internationally, starting a family, and, some day retiring comfortably. There was so much we wanted out of life, but . . .”

This is an excellent article that describes what can happen when a soon-to-be-married couple doesn’t talk about finances.  Fortunately, the two people in this article–Deacon and Kim Hayes–realized they had a problem and then took steps to get their finances back on track.

Specific steps this couple took can make a big difference over time.  Among the suggestions included in this article are:

  • Writing down all your assets, debts, income, and expenses.
  • Prepare a budget and review each item for opportunities to save money.
  • Replacing a newer, expensive car with an older car.
  • Selling unwanted or unneeded items online.
  • Using any extra money to repay debt.
  • Establishing an emergency fund.
  • Saving and investing a specific amount each month.

Consider This:  Deacon Hayes–the author of this article–became a financial planner and now shares his story with his clients.

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Teaching Suggestions

You may want to use the information in this blog post and the original article to

  • Discuss why engaged couples need to discuss their finances before they get married.
  • Stress how easy it is to get in debt and how hard and how much time it takes to get out of debt.

Discussion Questions

  1. Assume you are dating someone who seems to spend more than they make. In this situation, would you continue to date this person?  Explain your answer.
  2. One of the suggestions included in this article is that people write down their assets, debts, income, and expenses. How can this suggestion help a young-married couple plan their financial future?
  3. Assume you have credit card debts and an automobile loan that total $75,000. What specific steps can you take to reduce or eliminate your debt?

Wedding Costs and Marriage Success

The average cost of a wedding is nearly $30,000 and the average engagement ring cost is about $5,500.  However, a high-cost wedding does not ensure a long-term marriage.  A study by two economists at Emory University concluded that “marriage duration is inversely associated with spending on the engagement ring and wedding ceremony“.

Other findings of the research included:

  • spending between $2,000 and $4,000 on an engagement ring was associated with a 1.3 times greater chance of divorce compared to spending between $500 and $2,000.
  • spending between $2,000 and $4,000 on the engagement ring was associated with two to three times the probability of reporting being stressed about wedding-related debt relative to spending between $500 and $2,000.
  • spending less than $1,000 on the wedding is associated with an 82 to 93 percent decrease in the chance of reporting being stressed about wedding-related debt relative to spending between $5,000 and $10,000. 

While money is important in marriage and life, being materialistic can result in relational difficulties.

For additional information on the wedding costs and marriage success, click here:

For the research paper, click here:

Teaching Suggestions

  • Have students research actions that may be taken to reduce wedding costs.
  • Have students interview people about their experiences related to planning a wedding. 

Discussion Questions 

  1. What financial difficulties might result from overspending for a wedding?
  2. How might a couple reduce weddings costs?
  3. Describe actions that might be taken to as alternatives for an expensive wedding.

What is your Personal Savings Rate?

The average personal savings, as a percentage of income, in the United States, has averaged about five percent.  To calculate your own personal savings rate, take these steps:

  1.  Total your savings for the year, including non-retirement savings, personal retirement contributions, and employer retirement contributions. The amount could be negative if you took on more debt than the total of your savings.
  1. Determine your total income by adding your take-home pay (after subtracting income taxes) to the amount your employer contributed to your retirement account.
  1. Calculate the personal savings rate by dividing (1) by (2).

For additional information on personal savings rates, click here.

Also, to see information about savings rates and other statistics, click here.

Teaching Suggestions

  • Have students calculate their person savings rate.
  • Have students interview several people to determine actions that are commonly taken to increase a person’s savings rate. 

Discussion Questions 

  1. What actions might be taken to increase savings?
  2. Describe financial difficulties that may occur when a person has inadequate savings.

Raise a Glass and Toast the U.S. Economy in 2015

According to Mark Hamrick, Washington Bureau Chief, at Bankrate.com, “We go into 2015 and put the very bitter memory of 2007, 2008 behind us.”

With the national unemployment rate down to 5.8 percent, 2015 should be a good year for the economy.  According to Hamrick, “The economy has really done a great job of damage repair, with acceleration here recently with the quality of jobs being added.”  This trend will continue as employers are expected to continue adding workers in 2015 at a monthly pace of about 200,000 each month.

In addition to a lower unemployment rate, projected U.S. economic growth of nearly 3 percent over the next 12 months and stock prices near record highs should continue to fuel the nation’s economy.  On the down side, expect the Federal Reserve to raise interest rates around June 2015.  Also, there is the unknown factors of political and social unrest around the world and the typical global economic problems that could be a drag on the economy.

For more information, click here.

Teaching Suggestions

Note:  There is a 2 minute video that accompanies this article that you may to use as part of your classroom presentation.

You may want to use the information in this blog post and the original article to

  • Discuss the current state of the economy.
  • Explain why unemployment rates, interest rates, political and social unrest, and global economic problems can affect the U.S. economy.

Discussion Questions

  1. Although many economists and investors are enjoying the economic recovery over the last few years, many individuals do not share the same optimism. How do you feel about the nation’s economy?
  2. Are you optimistic about your own economic future? What specific steps can you take to improve your personal economic future?

5 Questions to Help You Get Your Financial Life in Order

“Rather than making resolutions . . . try answering the following five questions today, with a plan to answer them again when 2015 comes to a close.”

In this MarketWatch article, Chuck Jaffe poses the following 5 questions to help people gauge their financial health.

  1. What’s your net worth?
  2. How many times your current (or last) salary do you have in retirement savings?
  3. What’s your debt-payment burden?
  4. If you don’t see the next New Year, what would happen to your family financially?
  5. When reviewing your finances, what is the single thing that makes you feel the best? The worst?

In addition to the questions, Mr. Jaffe also provides information that can be used to improve a person’s answers  to each question with the goal of helping people manage their personal finances and improve their financial life.

For more information, click here.

Teaching Suggestions

You may want to use the information in this blog post and the original article to

  • Discuss each question with your students and explain how their answers can impact their personal financial decision making and financial security?
  • Ask students to answer one or more of the questions in this article as an assignment.

Discussion Questions

  1. Why is your net worth, salary, savings, and debt-payment burden important?
  2. What implications does the question “If you don’t see the next New Year, what would happen to your family financially?” have on your financial planning activities?
  3. When you look at your finances, what makes you feel good and what makes you feel bad? Based on your answer, what can you do to change your answers to this question?

52-Week Money Challenge

Do you want to take the 52-Week Money Challenge? 

Before saying no, consider it is a simple way to accumulate $1,378 over the next year.  Before saying yes, realize that while it is easy to save small amounts at the beginning of the year, it becomes increasingly harder to save larger amounts at the end of the year on a weekly basis.   Take a look at the table below to see how your money accumulates each week.

 

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Teaching Suggestions

You may want to use the information in this blog post and the original article to:

  • Stress that even small amounts of money over time can increase the amount available for savings or investing.
  • Discuss how monitoring your spending habits can “find” the money that can be used for savings and investing.
  • Talk about the need for financial discipline when managing, saving, and investing your money.

Discussion Questions

  1. In the above table, you begin by depositing $1 the first week, then each week, the amount you save increases. Where can you find the money needed to fund this type of savings program–especially toward the end of the year?
  2. Assuming you achieved the 52-week challenge and you now have $1,378 dollars in the bank. Would you leave it in the bank, pay your bills, or invest the money?  Justify your choice.
  3. After completing one 52-week challenge, would you take another money challenge? Why or Why Not?

Dangers of not teaching children about money management

Financial difficulties in a household can create anxiety for children. To minimize these apprehensions, parents should begin communicating about money at an early age to help children grow up to be financially literate adults.  Rather than allowing the youngsters to arrive at their own conclusions, a proactive approach can help the children avoid the mistakes of their parents. Without an open discussion, children will likely grow up lacking financial knowledge.

Suggested actions for developing good money habits among children are:

  • teach them to budget since this is the foundation of successful personal finance.
  • develop wise spending decisions for wise choices and avoiding impulse buying.
  • create an understanding of the rewards of work with a system of work-for-pay chores, which go beyond basic required chores, such as a clean room.
  • develop an appreciation for delayed gratification with saving for a goal.

For additional information on wise money management for children, go to:

http://www.bankrate.com/finance/smart-spending/the-danger-of-not-teaching-kids-about-cash.aspx?ec_id=cmct_02_comm_PF_mainlink

http://www.bankrate.com/finance/financial-literacy/4-money-lessons-for-children-to-master-1.aspx

 

Teaching Suggestions

  • Have students research various actions that might be taken to better involve children in family money management decisions.
  • Have students create interview questions that they might ask when trying to determine if parents are teaching their children wise money management habits.

 Discussion Questions 

  1. Describe various problems associated with not involving all household members in family money management activities.
  2. What actions would you take to teach young people about wise money management?

Trick yourself into saving

Saving money can be automatic with some simple actions that would reduce your monthly spending.  Some actions, which can include lowering your monthly cash outflows by as much as $400, include:

 

  • Using a programmable thermostat which can be used to automatically raise and lower the temperature in your home, resulting in energy savings.
  • Increasing insurance deductibles for your home and auto insurance which will likely result in an annual savings of several hundred dollars.
  • Practicing less aggressive driving; using a constant speed can save money on fuel costs.
  • Seeking out ways to reduce your communication bills, such as using basic cable along with streaming video on your computer. Also, using a free texting app on your phone.
  • Using a refillable water bottle can save hundreds of dollars by not buying bottled water.

 

To ensure that you actually save this money, each month, have funds automatically moved into a savings account or investment program.

For additional information on saving, go to:

http://www.bankrate.com/finance/video/saving-money/trick-yourself-into-saving.aspx#ixzz3IKDG71pN

Teaching Suggestions

  • Have students conduct online research to determine various actions to reduce spending and increase savings.
  • Have students interview several people to determine various actions that might be considered for reducing spending.

Discussion Questions 

  1. What actions have you taken to reduce spending and increase savings?
  2. Explain short-term and long-term benefits of reduced spending.

 

 

10 Things Rich People Know that You Don’t

“People don’t become wealthy by accident, here’s how they do it’

This article describes 10 habits that anyone can develop that will improve their financial management skills—regardless if they want to be the world’s next millionaire or if they just want to live comfortably.  For more information about each of the 10 items below, please see the original article.

  1. Start saving and investing early in life
  2. Automate savings and investments so deposits are made automatically on a regular basis
  3. Maximize contributions to retirement and investment accounts
  4. Never carry a credit card balance
  5. Live like you’re poor and adopt a “less is more” attitude
  6. Avoid the temptation to live beyond your means
  7. Be goal oriented and know what you consider to be important
  8. Get educated and learn about investments before investing your money
  9. Diversify your portfolio and avoid the temptation to put all your eggs in one basket
  10. Spend money to make money by hiring a qualified and experienced financial adviser, accountant, and, if needed, an estate planner

For more information go to http://www.marketwatch.com/story/10-habits-of-high-net-worth-women-2014-07-02?page=1

Teaching Suggestions

You may want to use the information in this blog post and the original article to

  • Stress the importance of making smart decisions as opposed to foolish decisions.
  • Tie the suggestions in this article to material in the text.

Discussion Questions

  1. Which of the ten habits described in this article can you use now to help manage your personal finances?
  2. The first suggestion, “start saving and investing early” is a basic principle we stress in the text. What are the advantages of starting early?

Thinking Like A Rich Person

While thinking about getting rich will not get you there, certain attitudes (along with accompanying behaviors) can move you in that direction. In his book How Rich People Think, Steve Siebold makes these suggestions:

  1.  Leverage, the use of other people’s money to make money, is the foundation. Look for investment opportunities that will grow your wealth faster than saving part of your wages as an employee. Look for methods to solve problems to make money.  New products and services are created each day, and some will result in large fortunes.
  2.  Avoid the lottery since only a very, very small number of people will retire using that financial planning path.
  3. Worrying about money is a waste of time. Concentrate on problem solving to make money. Even as an employee, your creativity and innovations can result in a higher salary.
  4. Emphasize investing instead of spending. This action will result in higher wealth.
  5. Use credit to your advantage, not for things you don’t need and can’t afford.

 For additional information on thinking like a rich person go to:

http://www.foxbusiness.com/personal-finance/2014/09/12/5-ways-to-think-like-rich-person/

Teaching Suggestions

  • Have students talk to others to obtain additional suggestions for improving a person’s long-term financial security.
  • Ask students to propose a product or service that solves a problem in our society and could result in future income.

 Discussion Questions 

  1. What are common barriers that people face when taking the actions suggested above?
  2. Describe additional actions that might be taken to create long-term wealth.
  3. What are some examples of problems to be solved in our society that could be the basis for future products or services?